I thought I might shed my opinion on two popular conversations as of right now.
The first being the Kat Stacks Slap.
Excuse me, but not only did I find that terribly amusing, but also very well earned.
Oh yes, I said it.
Let’s clear up one thing here, before I continue.
I do not in any way, shape or form condone domestic violence.
So get that idea out of your head if you will.
My issue with this entire- topic & why I feel as if it’s slightly getting blown outta the water is because as I have stated many a times,
I am probably thee ultimate definition of a realist in it’s finest form.
Would you like to hear the reality of this? - allow me if you will.
It is 2010.
Kids are owning guns before bicycles.
Girls are having sex, getting pregnant & abortions as young as 13.
You can get stabbed over wearing the wrong colour, on the wrong day, on the wrong street at the right time.
You can get killed over a bus ticket or glancing the wrong way at a stranger having a bad day.
So, as immature and juvenile as it sounds ..
You better believe that you sure as hell can get slapped up for talking shit.
Male or female. Black or white. Young or old.
Traditional values and morals that have been instilled since way back, have unfortunately taken to a back burner.
That’s the harsh reality of it.
Don’t act so surprised.
Please, it’s a terrible sign of unawareness.
Kat stacks is a shit talker, whether what she’s saying has any truth behind it is totally irrelevant. She sat up behind her computer screen & claimed to the world that she was this tough, bad bitch, who didn’t take shit from no one.
And I bet half of us believed her, until we were shown otherwise.
The tables turned & suddenly everyone is on about how terrible that was & she didn’t deserve it & women’s rights & etc etc.
At one point in the history books, we women fought to be treated as equal as men.
Now we use the excuse “I’ma a woman/girl/female” more than ever.
No one said much when she was publicly exposing her sex life as a known whore. Hell, majority of us all found that entertaining.
That says a whole lot about society.
Women are acceptable as worthless sex objects but not punching bags.
That’s the vibe I’m getting from this whole fiasco.
So pardon me if I’ve crossed some invisible women’s rights line, when I say that we females gotta stop pretending as if we are untouchable or something.
A lot of men still do have respect not to put their hands on a lady - and that’s the good news.
The bad news is - some men don’t, frankly they couldn’t care less.
It’s no longer a question of right or wrong, it’s just who’s aware of reality as it stands today?
Don’t ignore me. Or better said, don’t ignore certain things I say to you. Some believe that the best way to approach certain comments/remarks/opinions/suggestions/sentences Is to ignore them and keep their mouths shut. No. Ugh. I would rather hear you ramble a bunch of nonsense then to have you pretend as if you didn’t hear what I just said. Words don’t hurt people*, your not going to kill me by verbally responding to something I’ve said to you. I guess some feel that, not saying anything is better than saying something. Where they find justification in this - is beyond me. Making subliminal statements is an art form. Majority of people who think that what their saying is some how “subliminal” have most likely never made something sound so direct & clear. But most prefer to try & talk behind a facade of “hidden” msgs rather than just …. Speaking up.